Simran Sakshi

Simran Sakshi

Psychologist. Writer. Someone who believes the inner world matters — in therapy rooms, in workplaces, and in the stories we tell about ourselves.

Simran’s work begins with a single conviction: that most of the difficulties people experience — in how they feel, how they work, and how they relate — are not signs of personal failure. They are signs of systems, stories, and nervous systems that have never had enough space to breathe.

Her work lives at the intersection of the deeply personal and the quietly systemic. It moves between the therapy room and the boardroom, between the written word and the held silence, between the individual and the world they inhabit.

One question. Many rooms.

Simran has always been drawn to one question: what does it actually take for a person to thrive — not just cope, not just manage, but genuinely come alive?

In her therapy work, that question shows up in the room with adults who are outwardly holding it together but inwardly exhausted — navigating emotional overwhelm, burnout, relational patterns, or the quiet weight of experiences that were never fully acknowledged. As a trauma-informed psychologist offering online therapy in India and internationally, she works slowly, carefully, and with a deep attention to what the body knows before the mind can name it.

In her work with organisations, the same question takes a different shape. Too many capable, committed people are burning out — not because something is wrong with them, but because of how the environments around them are designed. Simran partners with leaders and teams to understand how pressure, emotional capacity, and workload actually show up in daily work — and to help build workplace conditions where people can focus on workplace mental health and perform well over time without disappearing in the process.

In her writing, the question becomes personal. She writes about feminism, aligned living, psychology, and the ordinary experiences that shape who we become — not from a position of having it all figured out, but from the middle of the figuring.

“The individual and the systemic are not separate threads. They pull on each other constantly. That integration is what makes the work more honest in both spaces.”

Where you
might find her

In therapy

Working with adults navigating emotional overwhelm, burnout, relational patterns, or the long-held weight of experiences that never had enough space. Trauma-informed, paced, and body-aware. Online, in English and Hindi.

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In organisations

Partnering with leaders, HR teams, employees and mental health spaces to understand how pressure, capacity, and emotional dysregulation show up in day-to-day life — and to build systems where people can thrive.

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In writing

Fragments, reflections, and things still being understood. Writing on feminism, psychology, aligned living, and the everyday experiences that shape who we are.

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The person behind
the work

Simran is a counselling psychologist, a highly sensitive person, and someone who came to this work through both training and lived experience. She knows what it is like to feel everything deeply in a world that doesn't always make room for it — and that knowing shapes how she shows up, in every space she works in.

You will find her most at home near water, trees, or open sky — the kind of landscapes that make it easier to hear what is actually going on inside. She is drawn to stories in every form: listening to them, reading them, writing them, holding space for them. She also loves to dance, finding in it a kind of expression that words sometimes cannot reach.

She believes in the quiet power of words. In the possibility of change that doesn't require force. In the intelligence of the body. And in a little bit of magic — especially the kind that lives in ordinary moments of genuine presence.

People who know her describe her as honest, affectionate, and someone who accepts you as you are — without judgment or the need to change.

A few things she holds to be true.

“Healing is not linear — and it does not require force.”

“The body knows things the mind has not yet found words for.”

“How we feel, work, and relate can all begin to shift when we stop pushing against our inner rhythms and start honouring them instead.”

“Safety is not the absence of difficulty. It is the presence of enough support to move through it.”

And yes — she still believes in a little bit of magic. Especially the kind that lives in ordinary moments.

Fragments, reflections, and things still being understood.

Writing on psychology, emotional clarity, and the everyday experiences that shape who we become.

Are you Pretending? Why?
Simran Sakshi

Simran Sakshi

Dec 31, 2025 · 7 min read

Are you Pretending? Why?

Is joy created or felt? Is it not a pretense if it's created? Or is it supposed to be created if not easily found? But does that mean not looking at the hard parts? But if you look at the hard parts, would you be able to find joy?


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If something here resonates.

Simran works with individuals, organisations, and anyone sitting somewhere in between — curious about what more honest, more human ways of living and working might look like.

She would love to hear from you.

For therapy and individual support

connect@simransakshi.com

For workplace workshops and programmes

awow@lightenleadership.com